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Abigail's avatar

Love this so much. You really did capture that every moment that parents perpetually inhabit.

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Shawn Smucker's avatar

Thank you, Abigail. Trying to inhabit these moments more deeply.

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Jody L. Collins's avatar

Oh my goodness, Shawn, this made me tear up--I remember when you and Maile shared with us the birth of those two littles...and now they're 7 and 9? Impossible.

What a poignant tale of pancake making and the passage of time. Absolutely spot on.

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Shawn Smucker's avatar

Thanks, Jody. It's been a pleasure traveling this road with you. Between the two of us it's been lots of miles and years and words written.

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Jody L. Collins's avatar

Yes indeed, lots of miles and years and words written. Thankful to be on the same trail of words...

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Kimi Harris's avatar

This beautiful post played violence with my emotions 😅. Our oldest is 17. Time has gone by much too quickly for me.

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Shawn Smucker's avatar

Growing up and into young adulthood, I think we have a particular view of time and kind of settle into that. Then, if you have children, time completely changes, fluctuates from super slow to super fast. It's mind-boggling. And then they're on their way.

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Kym VdP's avatar

Loved this so much 🥰

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Shawn Smucker's avatar

Thanks, Kym :)

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Sherry V. Chidwick's avatar

I knew I would like this post as soon as I saw the title. I am a sucker for a good literary allusion. WCW for the win. Beautiful post. Mine are all gone. No littles left. The house is sold. All that remains is my brain full of memories that refuses to let it all go.

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Shawn Smucker's avatar

Oh, my. "A brain full of memories." I'll be thinking about that.

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melony's avatar

"It’s an incredibly sad and wonderful thing, watching your kids make their own way into the world."

well said. drinking deeply the times with them, while holding loosely so they can 'fly'. sad and wonderful indeed.

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Shawn Smucker's avatar

Thanks, Melony!

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Dawn Camp's avatar

The youngest of our eight graduated in the spring, another one got married last month, and we have seven grandchildren. So many blessings, but still. Blessings to you!

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Shawn Smucker's avatar

Thanks, Dawn! Sounds like an adventure!

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David Todd McCarty's avatar

Boy are you in for it. Enjoy this time as well.

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Shawn Smucker's avatar

Every stage is so different, isn't it? Definitely learning, or trying to learn, how to live here and now.

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Shawn Smucker's avatar

Thanks for reading, Amber!

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